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WE HELP GROWTH-MINDED MEN BECOME MODERN GENTLEMEN.

Modern Gentleman Project (MGP) is a community for growth-minded men who want more out of life. At MGP we support men in becoming ‘that guy’. We’re talkin’ James Bond and Idris Elba or Tom Hanks and Keanu Reeves. We aren’t here to turn every guy into the same exact person, but we are here to help you grow and become a better, well-rounded man. A man with unique skills, charisma and confidence.

The Modern Gentleman Project’s ethos is honoring tradition while evolving beyond it. Technology, social norms, social media and many other factors are rapidly changing expectations for men. Through 1:1 coaching, workshops and just offering a space for open/honest dialogue, we’re here to help men navigate this challenging landscape. In the end, we’re all about balance and growth. And most importantly, we’re here to help you go after what you want, say yes to life and have the ambition to do whatever you set your mind to.

MY COACHING services

Modern Gentleman Project offers 1:1 coaching and small-group cohorts that turn a growth mindset into measurable habits. Core modules cover dating etiquette and social intelligence, communication and conflict skills, leadership presence and personal style, time/habit systems and purpose-led goal setting - adapted for dates and daily life. Every engagement starts with a baseline assessment (an audit, if you will) and progress is reinforced by weekly meetings and accountability. Virtual and NYC in-person options; corporate workshops and custom programs available.

  • Personalized coaching tailored to grow confidence in dating and life (in-person or virtual)

  • Outings designed to sharpen your social skills with immediate feedback and guidance

  • A profile overhaul that makes you stand out plus the tools to turn swipes into actual connections

  • Assess your current wardrobe, define the style you’re seeking and shop to complete your new look

  • Together with my interior designer, we’ll help reimagine your apartment so it feels fresh, stylish and uniquely you

  • My personal trainer will help you get in shape and build lasting fitness habits

Our Services

COMMUNITY EVENTS & WORKSHOPS

The Modern Gentleman Project hosts regular gatherings and workshops designed to help men grow in character, connection and confidence. Each event blends practical skills with meaningful conversation covering topics such as confidence, modern etiquette, personal style, leadership and relationship building.

Our community is built on the belief that tradition and progress can work together. We create opportunities to learn, share and practice qualities that define a Modern Gentleman: respect, curiosity and continuous self-development.

Whether you attend a single workshop or become a regular participant, you’ll find like-minded peers and resources that support personal growth and long-term friendships. Join us to strengthen your mindset, build lasting habits and engage with a network of men committed to evolving what it means to be a gentleman today.

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Hi, I’m Brandon.

After years of building a career in finance and product management, an unexpected layoff gave me the chance to focus on what truly mattered. I had a choice: return to the familiar or take a leap into something new and deeply fulfilling.

I chose to leap, and it changed everything.

As someone who used to hesitate to ask for the number, make the move or talk to the beautiful girl, I know firsthand what it’s like to struggle with dating. Through reconnecting with myself, I transformed my approach to relationships and built the confidence to connect in meaningful ways.

Now, as a certified dating coach, I’m passionate about helping other driven professionals break through their own barriers and find the fulfillment they deserve in their love lives and beyond.

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  • Working with Brandon has been the best investment I’ve made in over 10 years.

    -Jacob M.

  • “Brandon has been an incredible coach. I had recently exited a long-term relationship and found the dating scene overwhelming. He tailored his approach to my situation: how to approach women respectfully, getting the first date, etiquette on the date, and how to be confident and land that coveted second date. Discussing dating shortcomings can be awkward, but Brandon’s open-mindedness made me comfortable having intimate conversations. I appreciate how he takes a modern approach to dating: he champions communication and honesty, which are important virtues for dating. I also found the areas we worked on together helped not only my dating life, but enriched my life as a whole. I’d recommend Brandon to anyone who wants to level up their dating life.”

    -Gavin J

  • Brandon has been great to work with on improving my appearance and style! He listened to all of my concerns and goals up-front and anything I was looking to avoid that I'd tried before. Clothing shopping with him truly felt like a collaboration between friends. He introduced me to a number of cool clothing stores that weren't even on my radar and often knew the people working there, and even had his own discount at some of the places! He also made me feel comfortable through getting a new haircut and offered great feedback on picking out glasses that suited my rather particular preferences. He even threw in a few dating tips as a bonus! Now that all is said and done, I feel great about how I'll look for any future dates I have!

    Almost forgot, as a bonus, Brandon even came to my photoshoot to offer up "on the fly" outfits using all of my new clothes we got together, and some fun poses too, this guy is great!

    -Chris S.

  • Thank you so much for hosting such a great event! Most events leave me drained, but last night's hang honestly left me feeling energized and connected, and that was very much due to the great, warm energy you brought to the evening :) I so appreciate it!

    -K.D.

  • It was just a ton of fun, great people, great brands and I got a ton out of [the shopping event]!

    -Charles L.